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How to behave with people who do not like?

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1. Ask yourself if you really can’t notice some features or signs on the face that you may admire or become interested in.

We can really reject someone before we really give a chance, and that’s a loss if this is the case. We all make mistakes and perhaps you can find a common language with them. But even in this case, you may not want or do not find time for the immediate emergence of friendship.

2. Do not feel guilty for not having the same feelings for a person as he is for you.

We do not get along with some people the way we do with others, and before you can resolve the situation it is extremely important to understand that your antipathy towards them is normal. This does not make you a bad person and does not mean that you consider your interlocutor to be bad.

3. Act very subtly, most often it works.

If someone wants to spend time with you or take a walk, just tell them you can't. If you answer this way to every sentence, most people will understand the hint and move on. This also applies to phone calls. If this person calls you, be polite, but keep the conversation to a minimum. Do not voluntarily tell how you and what you did, just warn that you are busy now and would like to talk at another time. No need to lie and say that call later or the next day if you do not intend to do this. 4 Avoid situations involving your pastime with this person. If you still find yourself in such a situation, try to apologize and go to another group of people, or try to attract another person to distract from the discomfort. 5 Tell your goal that he / she is a good person, but you don’t feel anything in common between you and you don’t want to waste time. It will not be rude, but honest. Do this only after trying to hint, if the interlocutor did not understand this or simply ignored it. Ultimately, things of this kind are somewhat harsh and hit people’s pride. You can get the opposite effect and your goal will eventually fall out of love with you, but it is important to communicate, relying on your feelings, if other methods have not worked. 6 Talk about what is happening with those around you if your speech did not help. Gather the sympathies and collective thoughts of loved ones to develop a strategy to deal with a person. Most likely, you have common acquaintances who will be able to talk with him on your behalf. Even though most people do not always act with good intentions and thoughts, almost everyone wants to do this, and you yourself may not achieve the result. If you're lucky, a person will find someone who can respond to his feelings.

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